Friday, September 27, 2013
The Art Of Seduction - Part 3 - Sensuality
You open your bedroom windows and allow the cool, almost cold, air to filter in and over your silk sheets. You undress. Naked you enter your bed and feel the sensation flow over your entire body. Every square inch of your body is covered in goose bumps. This is sensuality. Sensuality is being completely present in your skin, owning your body, opening up to sensation. The seducer must completely own their body and feel comfortable in their skin, at least when actively seducing.
Women are at a great advantage when it comes to sensuality. Society allows them to be sensual. In fact, there's nothing as sad as a non-sensual woman. They have no excuse. Men on the other hand have to be able to strike that perfect balance of masculinity and femininity in order to be sensual. If that balance is not met then failure usually results.
When I'm in rut or on the prowl I like to do some breathing exercises and summon my "life force" so to speak. I lift my arms upwards and over my head until the backs of my hands touch. I then turn my hands around in a "prayer" formation and bring them down to my chest. As I'm doing this I can feel the electricity flow down my body.
When a seducer is fully in their skin they will natural move to incorporate objects in their environment into their seduction. The woman who runs her finger along the edge of her wine glass is the perfect example.
Try this. This works on both men and women. Get the target to speak about them self. Wait until they are lost in the moment and self-absorbed. This works better if you can do it to the edge of the table but if this is not possible then use the table top. Take your thumb and place it about halfway to the target on the table or edge of the table. Gently pull your thumb back toward you slowly and gently. Keep your head tilted and your glance to your thumb. Keep your poker face on. When your thumb nears your body stop. Right your head and meet his or her glance and continue to be interested in his or her words. One of two things will happen. Either he or she will simply not register what just took place or they will. The first is always the best. If they fail to consciously register it then it means it's in the back of their mind, the subconscious, where it will work on them. If they did notice it consciously and even ask you why you did what you just did then simply respond with a smile and mention how smooth or strange the texture of the table is. Chances are that even if they do catch on they will have that look in their eyes, perhaps even a tint of blush to their cheeks. They will probably be intrigued, fascinated even. It's the little tricks like this that seducers learn to master.
Sensuality. Come into your skin. Own your body. Open up to sensation.